eprintid: 931 rev_number: 1 eprint_status: archive userid: 1 dir: disk0/00/00/09/31 datestamp: 2020-04-23 05:22:10 lastmod: 2020-04-23 05:22:10 status_changed: 2020-04-23 05:22:10 type: thesis metadata_visibility: show creators_name: van der Wiel, R. title: Pathways to commitment in living-apart-together relationships: A study on satisfaction, alternatives, investments and social support ispublished: pub full_text_status: public abstract: By means of 22 semi-structured, in-depth interviews, I have explored how the partner commitment experiences of living-apart-together (LAT) couples in the Netherlands are shaped by their satisfaction with, alternatives to, investments in and social support for their relationship, and interlinked with their choice for LAT. The interviews showed that LAT was mostly motivated by the “self”. Although emotional attachment to a partner appeared to be high, people in LAT relationships seemed to have a relatively limited belief and interest in life-long partnerships. Satisfaction and intrinsic investments were described as contributing the most to feelings of commitment. Relationship history plays an important role in how middle-aged and older people, who have often gone through a divorce, experience several aspects of their LAT relationship. In this context, LAT expresses fear of commitment and getting hurt, which is further reflected in limited investments. date: 2016 date_type: published thesis_type: master degree_programme: RS tutors_name: Mulder, Prof. C.H. tutors_name: Bailey, dr. A. keywords_local: investments keywords_local: relationship satisfaction keywords_local: partner relationships keywords_local: living-apart-together keywords_local: commitment keywords_local: alternatives keywords_local: social support language_iso: en titleorder: Pathways to commitment in living-apart-together relationships: A study on satisfaction, alternatives, investments and social support dbi: 57ceaff7d001a imported_item: yes date_of_import: 2020-04-22 imported_from: http://scripties.frw.eldoc.ub.rug.nl/root/ma/RS/2016/rvanderwiel/ import_source_file: theses-frw-20200422132454-57ceaff7d001a.xml date_issued: 2016-01-01 citation: van der Wiel, R. (2016) Pathways to commitment in living-apart-together relationships: A study on satisfaction, alternatives, investments and social support. Master thesis. document_url: https://frw.studenttheses.ub.rug.nl/931/1/Master_thesis_final_version_va_1.pdf